Quit with an error status on SIGTERM during migration

This prevents the supervisor from thinking that the migration completed
successfully.

In order to do this, I've introduced a new lock around the start (and
finish) of the migration so that we avoid a race between the signal
handler in the server_accept loop and the control thread mirror startup.
Without that, we'd risk successfully starting a migration after the
SIGTERM handler fired, which would be Bad.

tests/acceptance/fakes/source/sigterm_after_hello.rb

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+#!/usr/bin/env ruby
+
+# Connect to the listener, wait for the hello, then sigterm the
+# listener.  We expect the listener to exit with a status of 6, which
+# is enforced in the test.
+
+require 'flexnbd/fake_source'
+include FlexNBD
+
+addr, port, pid = *ARGV
+
+client = FakeSource.new( addr, port, "Timed out connecting." )
+client.read_hello
+
+Process.kill( "TERM", pid.to_i )
+
+sleep(0.2)
+client.close
+
+exit(0)