If the mirror attempt failed and we were able to report an error to the
user, it makes no sense to attempt a retry. We don't have a way to
abort a mirror attempt yet, so if the user got a setting wrong and it's
failing for that reason, the only recourse they'd have would be to
restart the server.
If the mirror attempt connects ok, but is rejected (say, for reporting
the wrong size), the client socket needs to be closed. The destination
end can't close its socket and accept another connection attempt unless
it does.
