This is a bit tricky, but calling shutdown() on a socket in a signal
handler is safe, and (at least in linux) appears to cause any read()
or write() calls blocked on that socket to return, even with SA_RESTART.
I'm not confident enough about the rest of flexnbd's syscall error
handling to turn SA_RESTART off for this signal...
We're not actually using it in production right now because it doesn't
shut its sockets down cleanly enough. This is a better option than
reverting the functionality or keeping production downgraded until
we sort out a handler that cleanly closes the sockets.
Changing behaviour so that instead of rebinding after a successful
migration and continuing as an ordinary server, we simply quit with a
0 exit code and let our caller restart us as a server if they want to.
This means that everything in listen.c, listen.h, and anything making
reference to a rebind address is unneeded.
Now that we have 3 mutexes lying around, it's important that we check
and free these if necessary if error() is called in any thread that can
hold them. To do this, we now have flexthread.c, which defines a
flexthread_mutex struct. This is a wrapper around a pthread_mutex_t and
a pthread_t. The idea is that in the error handler, the thread can
check whether it holds the mutex and can free it if and only if it does.
This is important because pthread fast mutexes can be freed by *any*
thread, not just the thread which holds them.
Note: it is only ever safe for a thread to check if it holds the mutex
itself. It is *never* safe to check if another thread holds a mutex
without first locking that mutex, which makes the whole operation rather
pointless.
