Changing behaviour so that instead of rebinding after a successful
migration and continuing as an ordinary server, we simply quit with a
0 exit code and let our caller restart us as a server if they want to.
This means that everything in listen.c, listen.h, and anything making
reference to a rebind address is unneeded.
The mirror_super signals the commit state to the control thread via an
mbox, and this mbox is moved to control. It was owned by mirror_super,
but the problem with that is that mirror_super can free the mbox before
the control client has been scheduled to receive the message. If it's
owned by the control object, that can't happen.