This commit beefs up the Makefile to do the build, instead of the
Rakefile.
It also removes from the Rakefile the dependency on rake_utils, which
should mean it's ok to build in a schroot.
The files are reorganised to make the Makefile rules more tractable,
although the reorganisation reveals a problem with our current code
organisation.
The problem is that the proxy-specific code transitively depends on the
server code via flexnbd.h, which has a circular dependency on the server
and client structs. This should be broken in a future commit by
separating the flexnbd struct into a shared config struct and
server-specific parts, so that the server code can be moved into
src/server to more accurately show the functional dependencies.
