This makes it easier for the tests (and supervisor) to guarantee to be
able to connect to the server socket.
Also this patch moves freeing the mirror supervisor into the server
thread.
Changing behaviour so that instead of rebinding after a successful
migration and continuing as an ordinary server, we simply quit with a
0 exit code and let our caller restart us as a server if they want to.
This means that everything in listen.c, listen.h, and anything making
reference to a rebind address is unneeded.
The mirror_super signals the commit state to the control thread via an
mbox, and this mbox is moved to control. It was owned by mirror_super,
but the problem with that is that mirror_super can free the mbox before
the control client has been scheduled to receive the message. If it's
owned by the control object, that can't happen.
